Archive for December, 2004

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2004 in Review-Part II

December 31, 2004
Today we are going to focus on those we have lost in the past year. While I was preparing this blog we lost two more famous people-Jerry Orbach and Reggie White. Reggie played pro football and was also an ordained minister. No cause yet that I’ve heard, but it looks related to his sleep apnea. Jerry Orbach was was a Broadway star, but yet many of us younger people knew him as Det. Lenny Briscoe on Law and Order or Baby’s dad on Dirty Dancing. Here are few more we’ve lost this year:
Ronald Reagan, 93, was an actor, governor, and president. He survived an assassination attempt, the Iran-Contra affair, and the Cold War but through it all he remained untouchable. “The Teflon President” was truly a well-given moniker.
Ray Charles, 73, was truly a musical innovator. Blending pop, blues, R&B, and soul into his own sound that became simply “The Sound.” He released such standards as “Georgia,” “Hit the Road Jack,” “God Bless American,” and the Country and Western album. Charles did it his way, and we all got to sing along with him. Tony Randall, 84, was, to many Americans, Felix Unger on The Odd Couple. He was also in several Rock Hudson-Doris Day movies. Marlon Brando, 80, was to many film critics and fans the actor of this past century. He uttered the words”I’m gonna make him an offer he can’t refuse” in the Godfather, starring in On the Waterfront, and refused his Oscar by sending a Native American in his place. A true original.
Jack Paar, 85, was the Tonight Show host before Jay and Johnny. He walked off the air in 1960 for 25 days after the censors cut part of his dialogue. If I remember right, the night he return he started out, “As I was saying before I was interrupted.” Christopher Reeve, 52, was Superman, both in person and on screen. After being paralyzed in an equestrian accident in 1995, Reeve set about campaigning for spinal cord research and stem cell research.
Yasir Arrafat, 75, rather a statesmen for Palestinian people or a terrorist, Arrafat set off strong reactions. After waging guerilla war on the Israelis, he agreed in 1993 to work toward peace with Israel.
Estee Lauder, 97, went from mixing up beauty in her stable to a multi-billion dollar corporation. Rodney Dangerfield, 82, may have complained about getting no respect. We’ll never forget the bug-eyed comic with the cigar and the greatest schtick of all time. Janet Leigh, 77, was killed by Alfred Hitchcock in Psycho, now we’re all afraid to shower. She married Tony Curtis and they had a daughter, Jaime Lee Curtis. Bob Keeshan, 76, or as most of us know him, Captain Kangeroo. Who could forget that mustache? Julia Child, 91, with her high-pitched voice brought French-cuising to public TV. Anyone with a helium balloon could imitate her voice, but Julia was the first of so many TV cooks.
Mattie Stepanek, 13, was a poet, spokesman, and endured Muscular Dystrophy. He put a young face on a disease many of us don’t think twice about. Jeff Smith, 65, was the Frugal Gourmet cook on PBS for years. Gordon Cooper, 77, was the youngest member of the Mercury Seven astronauts. His life was on the big screen in The Right Stuff (played by Dennis Quaid). Alistair Cooke, 95, was a journalist, especially for the BBC and his Letters from America. But Cooke was known to many as this host of Masterpiece Theatre. Isabel Sanford, 86, was know as Weezie in The Jeffersons. Rick James, 56, was a funk musician known for his superhit Superfreak. With the long beaded braids and outlandish outfits, James was one of a kind.
Skeeter Davis, 72, was a country singer who took The End of the World to the top of the charts. A Grand Ole Opry star for decades. Jan Berry, 62, was half of the surf duo Jan and Dean. Everyone now: Little old lady from Pasedena! Arthur Hailey,84, was the author of Hotel and Airport. Thanks, Mr. Hailey, for disaster movies. Noble Willingham, 72, was a versatile actor known mostly for his work in Walker, Texas Ranger (he was the bar owner).
Paul Winfield, 62, was an Oscar Nominated stage and screen star. Recently he had shown up on several TV shows in guest spots. Robert Pastorelli, 49, was the screwball housepainter on Murphy Brown. Fay Wright, 96, was the damsel in distress in King Kong. Frank Thomas, 92, was one of Disney’s top artists. Animated Lady and her beau eating spaghetti in the Italian restaurant. Jerry Scroggins, 93, was the original singer of The Ballad of Jed Clampett.
Margie Schott, 75, the owner of the Cincinnati Reds from 84-99. Loud, crass, socially conscientious and yet in your face. And who could forget the dogs? Tug McGraw, 53, was the pitcher for the 73 Mets who coined the phrase, “You gotta believe.” Pat Tillman, 27, gave up a lucrative NFL career for the Arizona Cardinals for the Army. Was killed in Afghanistan by friendly fire. John Henry Williams, 35, was the son of Ted, and minor-league baseball player in his own right.
Al Dorvin, 81, was a concert announcer that worked with Elvis. “Elvis has left the building.”
And most importantly, our American servicemen and women who have died in service to their country. Current figures are roughly 1328 in Iraq and 154 in Afghanistan or 1482 deaths. Although we are a culture devoted to celebrities, these deaths should mean more and hurt more than any celebrity. Take a moment to thank God for our freedoms, our real hero’s, and the hurting military and military families. May healing come in the New Year.
I’ll be back next year-have a safe and happy New Year’s Eve.
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2004…The year that was

December 30, 2004
Well, here it is almost New Year’s Eve and time for a look back at what we just lived through. Although I have struggled to put this into any form of organization, I am just going to throw this at you guys. Remember this?
Deadly school hostage situation in Beslan, Russia with 330+ killed during/after a 52 hour standoff. Hurricanes pound Florida in the form of Charlie, Ivan, Frances, and Jeanne. Also caused widespread flooding in Mississippi, Louisiana, Georgia, and the Eastern Seaboard. Flu shot shortage causes flu vaccination rations.
In sports, it was the year of the Olympics and the Red Sox. Mia Hamm, soccer wonder retired after helping the women win gold. The Iraqi soccer team air lifted out of a war zone and nearly won a bronze medal. Lance Armstrong won a record sixth Tour de France. Hockey shutout. Wardrobe malfunction at the Super Bowl (but I can’t remember who won). Then there was the Cardinals-one win away from tying team record. And Boston coming back to win the ALCS and then sweeping the Cards. Montreal lost their team to DC in the off-season. And then steroids.
In the crime and punishment section of the paper: Martha Stewart convicted and doing prison time. Scott Peterson convicted of killing his wife Lacey and unborn son Conner. Charges brought against Michael Jackson. Kobe Bryant almost stood trial in Colorado for sexual assault. The DC Snipers, Lee Boyd Malvo and John Allen Muhammad, were convicted in separate trials. Ohio state finally got the guy that was sniping at highway drivers. Charles McCoy was arrested in Las Vegas.
Mary Kay Letourneau was released from prison after being convicted several years ago of having sex with her student. Oklahoma convicted Terry Nichols on state murder charges stemming from the OKC bombing. Deer hunter in Minnesota kills three and wounds five. Illinois commuted all death row inmates. 11 states banned gay marriages.
Bush was reelected in a muddy election. President Clinton underwent quadruple-bypass surgery, released a biography, and opened his presidential Library in Arkansas. WWII memorial finally built and dedicated. Ronald Reagan and Yasser Arafat passed away.
In Iraq, American death toll topped 1300. Magnetic ribbons on the bumper became one more way Americans supported their troops. Prison scandal in Iraq with Americans accused of abuse. Civilian workers and contractors were targeted in Iraq by militants. Four contractors burned and dragged through the streets then hung from a bridge.
Plane crashes: NASCARs Hendricks Motorsports small plane went down killing 10. Dick Ebersol, CBS Sports chief, in crash that wounded one son and killed another. Army chopper went down in Texas killing seven. Small plane crashed in Missouri killing 13 that were on their way to a conference. Black Hawk chopper went down in Iraq killing eight.
But it was also the year of The Passion of the Christ. George Straight released his 50 #1 hits package. Gretchen Wilson and Big and Rich made their marks on country music. Bowling for Soup spoofed 80’s video in 1985. And Guns N Roses rose from the ashes with a new front man to form Velvet Revolver.
Personally, 2004 was the year that I grew sick of political ads, kept my job, and managed to move out of mom’s (one more time). And twenty years from now, I may recall Reagan, or Clinton’s biography, or the Iraqi conflict. What I definitely will remember is what will never make the headlines: family, friends, and times spent with both of them. May 2005 be better to us than 2004!
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This year is almost gone

December 29, 2004
Well, if you’re not paying attention this year is about over. Tomorrow’s post is going to be a year in review that I’m working on today. I don’t have much to say and I’m really not thinking today, so I’ll just say: Have a great day!
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I’m preaching to myself this morning

December 28, 2004
BJ and the no good, very bad, awful, etc…You know the title, I’m sure. Mom called and I cried on her shoulder, then she preached at me. For once I didn’t mind, it’s nice to know that what I’m telling myself is what my mother would tell me. I’ve made up my mind that I’m going tomorrow afternoon and apply at some stores near my apartment for a second job. I need to get some back bills paid, I need to get my finances in shape, and most importantly I need to learn to live within my means. (And I thought I don’t do New Years Resolutions.)
I’m putting together an article for late this week, probably Friday’s issue, about the year. I got my notebook where I write everything down to transfer to proper places later cleaned out yesterday. I did a major clean on my room on Christmas. Mom and Mandy are referring to it as a “Christmas Miracle.” (I don’t really do clean. As long as the piles are fairly straight it’s okay with me!) Now, I am going to tackle my bills and finances.
Does anyone else want to run screaming out of the room when it comes to this stuff? It’s so depressing to me-mainly because I have just enough to pay the bills and nothing really left over. I like to eat out, buy magazines, shop in quaint little stores, and spoil my family. However, the reality is, is that I can’t really do those things without some planning and possibly a second job. The important thing is that I pay the bills, keep a roof over my head, have my car paid on time, and that I have food to eat.
Anyway, I’m preaching to myself this morning. Pretty pathetic that I have to psych myself up to tackle the bills and finances. Considering I don’t date and believing that my chances of “happily ever after” is slim to none, I better get my head out of my butt and deal with this because I don’t see anyone willing to help me out.
Anyway, now that I’ve depressed everyone, Have a great day.
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Welcome to the Dead Zone

December 27, 2004
Well, it’s that time of year between holidays when nobody wants to do anything. Christmas was interesting. I got some things I wanted, namely kitchen gadgets and utensils. Now I want to bake the night away. I got a nice book with lots of pictures in it about the St Louis Cardinals from mom and dad. What I didn’t get was the two items I really wanted: a NLCS tee shirt and a St Louis ballcap. I’ve only asked for the ballcap for like four years. I’m going to buy my own, along with the tee shirt. But I did like my presents and look forward to using and enjoying everything. The one dependable gift I got this year (like every year) is chocolate covered cherries. This year they are the dark chocolate version. Very nice.
Sister Sarah’s friend Felina from Missouri is down for a week to visit. I’ve persuaded mom to let me have the car tomorrow night, then dad and the girls can do “Things” the rest of the week. I’ve got to go to the library, I’m going through withdrawal really bad! In addition, a DVD and several books are due tomorrow. So, I’m going to drop that off, pick up the holdshelf items, and three other books.
Maybe I’ll make my reading goal for this year. I’ve worked my butt off trying to accomplish it. The book I finished over the weekend was Bad Boy from Rosebud about Kenneth Allen McDuff. If you’ve never heard of McDuff, you have at least heard about the reforms to the prison structure that came about because of McDuff. You see, McDuff was convicted of murder in 1965 (I believe) and placed on death row. Then the Supreme Court revoked the death penalty. McDuff was paroled, yes paroled, in 1985 or so. From death row to parole, that still blows me away. He then tortured, raped, and killed at least four women between the mid-eights and the early nineties. He was arrested in KC, extradited back to Texas, and was convicted on two counts of murder. He was placed on death row, with two separate juries bring back death penalties, and was killed by the state of Texas in the late nineties. This book was not about McDuff but rather the families and investigators in these cases. I don’t think I could have read the book if it was written any other way. McDuff rates right up there with Bundy, Gacy, and others who have no concept of anything but self-pleasure. It’s scary to know that this type of people is in the world, it’s another to inhabit the world even if it’s just through a book. And y’all wonder why I don’t like horror stories.
Anyway, I need to get on breakfast and finish my bagel. Have a great day.
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Merry Christmas

December 24, 2004

Okay, it’s early, but I’m definitely turning into a grinch here. I’m going grocery shopping tomorrow morning and will finish up my gift to Mandy (who’s the only one getting Christmas). I’m making a few things for Christmas dinner, but mom didn’t get with me when she got off of work at eleven tonight, so I’m not sure what I’m going to do yet. Either go wake her up at seven and verify things or just get it done and swing by the house. Every thing closes about five tomorrow and considering Manda, Dad, and Sarah are going shopping tomorrow I’m not planning on having my car. Thus, I can’t make another run for Christmas dinner groceries. Why can’t people simply do what I suggest? (Rhetorical question because nobody listens to me.) *And I’m now banging my head on the desk.*

Then tomorrow afternoon I’ll be making the cake, fudge, deviled eggs, and whatever else. Hopefully Mandy will take the kids to mom’s and I can turn on the radio (loud) and cook and bake to my heart’s content. Unfortunately we’ll all have to put up with Christmas music for roughly the next 48 or so hours on most stations. *Sigh* Grinch, already and it’s not even Christmas.

Well, have a great Christmas. See you in the twilight zone (that scary and dead time between Christmas and New Years) next week.

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Military Christmas Eve

December 23, 2004

To: All retired military personnel. Subject: official command visit.

This office has been informed of an official visit by General Claus to this base on 25 December. The following directives will govern activities of personnel during this visit:
  1. No creatures will stir without official permission. This will include all native mice. Special stirring permits will be obtained through the orderly room.
  2. Personnel will settle their brains for a long winter nap prior to 2200 hours. Uniform for nap: cotton, light drowsing, with kerchief, general purpose. Personnel will utilize standard ration sugarplums to dance through their heads. This item may be picked up in the orderly room.
  3. Stockings, wool, cushion sole, will be hung by chimneys with care. Necessary safety precautions will be taken to avoid fires. Individual sections will submit stocking-hanging plans to Captain Kringle by 0800 hours, 22 December.
  4. At first sign of clatter from lawn, all personnel will spring from their beds to investigate and evaluate cause. Immediate action will be take to tear open shutters and throw open window sashes.
  5. Volunteers are needed to drive one sleigh, miniature, and eight (8) deer, rein, tiny for use of General Claus. Driver must have current roof-top license.
  6. General Claus will enter all sections through chimneys. Sections without chimneys will draw a Chimney Simulator from Link Services for use during ceremonies. Requests must be submitted in triplicate prior to 20 December.
  7. All personnel will be rehearsed in shouting, “Merry Christmas to all, and to all a good night.” This shout will be given upon termination of General Claus’ visit. Uniformity of shouting is the responsibility of all section chiefs.

Signed, Ebenezer Scrooge, Colonel, USAF, Commander

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Eve of Christmas Eve

December 23, 2004
That’s right, today’s the eve of Christmas Eve. A few Christmas facts from the Census bureau about the 2003 holidays (which will give you some idea about this year’s numbers). $521 million was spent on Christmas trees and most of those trees were grown in Oregon. $312 million in imported Christmas ornaments from China, the leading exporter. There is a Christmas, Florida (the only town named Christmas). Also a North Pole, Alaska; Santa Clause, Indiana and Georgia; Noel, Missouri; and a Rudolph, Wisconsin. Like a white Christmas? Try Valdez or Yakutat, Alaska; Blue Canyon, California; Sault Ste. Marie, Marquette, or Muskegon, Michigan; or Mt. Washington, New Hampshire which all have an average of two feet of snow on the ground in December.
It’s cold in the Sooner state tonight. Thanks to Intellicast for the weather info tonight, by the way. It’s 41 and foggy in Boston, Sedalia (Missouri) is 10 degrees and windchill of 5 below, and Tulsa is 14 degrees with a windchill of 2 above. That’s cold, any way you slice it. Tulsa has a windchill advisory out for tonight and tomorrow morning. It actually snowed here in Broken Arrow this morning although it wasn’t more than a dusting. It was nice to see the white stuff falling out of the sky. I like my winters to be cold and white. I checked in a couple tonight that was in town to do Christmas shopping. Tomorrow they would get out the master list and get it done. I think the snow and cold, as much complaining has been done beside the point, has helped to put everyone in the Christmas cheer a little better. As for me, I’m sitting here listening to Now That’s What I Call Christmas 2 and specifically Johnny Mathis. Although I’m real partial to Chuck Berry urging Rudolph to take the freeway in Run Rudolph Run. What fun.
Well, if it ain’t obvious I didn’t send out Christmas Cards this year (shame on me). So, happy holidays and Merry Christmas. Now I’m off to breakfast. Have a great day!
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Christmas Tidbits

December 22, 2004
  • The North Pole is not on land. It’s actually an ice-covered spot on the Arctic Ocean. In International waters, it doesn’t belong to any nation.
  • Rudolph the Red-Nose Reindeer was orginally going to be named Rollo.
  • The first department store Santa Claus appeared in 1890 at a Boston store.
  • The Greek word for Christ is Xristos, hence XMas, the shortened form of Christmas.
  • Hanukkah commemorates the Maccabees victory over the Greco-Syrian king Antiochus IV Epiphanes. He had tried to eradicate the Jewish religion, but was defeated in 165 B.C.
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And a not so merry Christmas

December 22, 2004
Is it just me or has this been a not very festive holiday season? The news has been nothing but depressing, we’re still in Iraq (and still dying), and there just seem to the blahs. Maybe it’s because of this cold thing I can’t shake. Maybe it’s the Christmas blues. I haven’t even really listened to my Christmas music this year. Just going through the motions I suppose. I should be grateful. I still have my family and friends and job.
Lance Corporal Gregory Paul Rund died in Iraq on December 11 and was just recently laid to rest in a Denver cemetery. It was Rund’s second tour of duty in Iraq. The thing about this story that kills me is that Rund was at Columbine that April day when all hell broke loose. He survived a school shooting and a tour in Iraq, but yet he still died in service to his country. I’m not sure if this is depressing or inspiring; although I’m thinking it’s both. From the story by the Washington Post Rund was inspired by 9/11 to serve his country. This after surviving being shot at by gunmen. Not sure who said it but someone once said (and I am paraphrasing): “I’m sick and tired of old men dreaming up new wars for young men to die in.”
Victoria Jo Stinnett went home from the hospital Monday night in the company of her father and family. Victoria Jo was the baby that was ripped from her mother’s belly by another woman in Skidmore, Missouri. Her father, according to news reports, only left her side to make arrangements for his wife’s funeral. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain this father and husband is going through right now. Days ago he was probably looking forward to Christmas with his wife and the upcoming birth of their child. Now he’s trying to figure out where to go from here, how to care for the child he was going to share with his wife, and how to deal with burying his wife. God, how my heart aches for this man. May God lay His hand upon him and give him a Christmas blessing of peace and comfort.
And now that I’ve depressed everyone, I’m going to call it a day (at least blogging-wise). Have a great day and see you tomorrow.
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